Found

Hanging out this evening on the patio, watching Tolido track back and forth between us to grace us individually with his impishly angelic little grin, I was struck by a rather obvious-seeming thought that nonetheless tripped me up.  As I looked at my husband and my little boy communicating in their wordless way, I realized that I'd found my two best friends.  Out of all the billions of people in the world, we'd *found* each other.  I happened upon my husband through a tremendous number of choices I made and a convoluted trail of circumstances in my life that ultimately put my life on a collision course with his.  And so it is true of our choices and our path to our little boy.  And if it is in this way that we created our marriage, it follows it would also be a great way to create a family.  And so it has been.